Here is what I hope we'll do.  Just report in each day on what we've done re: food and exercise.  We can share anything else, too - housework done, some bright idea/aha moment, feelings, fears - whatever....just in a short paragraph or two - about how you're doing and how your day went.  This isn't meant to outdo anyone; it's not a competition.  Just being accountable to ourselves - putting it out there, and mostly, to show ourselves that we're actually doing pretty good.